Is it Wrong to Treat a Dude like a Bitch?

Dudes get offended when i treat them like bitches like if I have sex with them and its whack, I'm out the door no cuddle. This dude tried so hard to have sex with me but he couldn't even get it up when it came down to the action well what was supposed to be action..when i said "Alright fuck it your loss, your just not as ready for me as you thought you were take me home now i don't have anymore time to waist here when i could be elsewhere", he said "NO!!!! Just lay down with me". I'm like "its 10:00 pm I'm not about to lay down i got moves to make." Once i shut him he finally got it up because he wasn't trying to take me home without fuckin so i thought it would've been something spectacular. Yea right, that it was so whack that I had to say "Yo, stop i don't even feel anything I'm really ready to go." (his pee pee was small, came up short). So he tried to go harder but he wasn't cutting it for me so I finally stopped him then he says "Nah u cant leave yet my mom is still up" (SMH) i said "What!!! You think I give a fuck if your mom is still up? Shit so am i and I'm bout to be out, so put your shit on and take me home I'm not the one getting in trouble i am grown ass woman." he replied, "I'm a grown ass man why are you talking to me like that?" No, your not a grown ass man if you were you wouldn't have to worry about your mommy tripping. He then takes me home, and I gave him a hug so he wouldn't feel too bad. The next morning i get a text from him saying "Yo you really know how to make a dude feel bad, you went in on me last night" LMAO What are you talking about? You did that to yourself...